To tell or not to tell?

**Please read before answering!!** Okay so my husband and I are expecting our second. His younger brother and sis in law are due very end of April. We are due the month after. Everyone besides the youngest brother and sis in law have kids. They announced 4 months ago. We haven't told them we are pregnant yet since we actually had a miscarriage at the beginning of that same month they announced and want to wait til 12 weeks +. . they also do not know about mc. We aren't sure if announcing at our family Christmas will be like trying to take their moment from them, they'll know the gender by then and people are getting gifts for their baby... so I'm wondering if we should tell them before separately and run the risk they'll tell my other sis in laws...because we don't want them to think we are trying to take anything away from their first baby and there will be a lot of talk about that there. Or if it's fair/okay to just announce to everyone at the Christmas that we're pregnant all at once. I guess just trying to see if I'm way overthinking. Should note we haven't always gotten along with my bro and sis in laws. They say we are the black sheep of the family so that's why I'm nervous they're going to treat us like we are stealing their thunder in a way.

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