I’ve become one of those women I used to hate...

We have been TTC since 2016, we lost a boy in October last year at 14 weeks who we only conceived after surgery to remove endometriosis, and have since been doing ivf. I got OHSS in my last IVF cycle, so took a break and was on meds to prep for a frozen embryo transfer when BAM took a test, and I’m pregnant! Wasn’t even trying and we were told it wouldn’t happen naturally.

Still very early but I can’t believe the stories about “stop trying and it’ll happen” actually happened to me! However I don’t believe stopping trying is actually possible.... we are always thinking about the next step when infertile !! Anyway, not a brag - just in shock and wanted to share !! And if you’re struggling - I think go ahead and do what you want to do in life because I’ve put SO MUCH of my life on hold and tried to plan and you just can’t plan what is coming.

pregnancy after loss and infertility so far is so scary and anxiety inducing !! But I’m loving every day and just being so appreciative of being pregnant !!