Belittled bc I panicked

My husband joined me in the shower our shower is small so we don’t typically join each other bc of that. He accidentally hit the water temperature to scolding fucking hot. The shower head was pointing at my chest. I panicked and bc the shower is so small I just lowered the temperature and he ended up grabbing the shower head and moving it.

Then he made me feel like I did something wrong bc I panicked and didn’t think to move the shower head out of the way. He kept saying typical women not using her brain. Are you even sure you have one? He finished showering and then got out not once did he ask if I was ok or if I needed anything.

What happened to my compassionate husband? Bc this man was an asshole who I didn’t even know. 😔