Would this bother you?

Question

We have a 4 month old baby and my husband seems to have all the freedom while I’m at home taking care of the babes.  Everytime he has plans to go out he always tells me “if you can find a babysitter then you can come too” it bothers me, why should it be that if I can find a sitter I can go out? This baby is his too so maybe he shouldn’t always get to go out if we have no sitter.

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It would bother me more that he doesn’t want to spend his available time with his new baby 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Well when he is home get ready and leave and tell him if he finds a babysitter than he can come. I have trust issues so I cant leave my babies with anyone but my mother. That being said why do people jot realize how emotional it is going through the nine months of pregnancy and how emotional the following months are. It's like fuck the women they can stay home and resent life because now they are stir crazy and depressed

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Yes that would bother me very much. You need time to yourself and you all should have date nights. You should really talk to him about how you feel.

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Yeah use him to take care if his kid while you go do something like he does

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Mine ex of 7 yrs did this to me ! We share 3 kids together. Turns out he knew I didn’t have any one to watch them and took advantage to cheat on me !! Red flag .

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