Motivation

How do you motivate someone. If all they do I bitch and moan about the shit your not doing. How do you motivate a person to do better for their self if all they do is sit and play video games or watch tv all the time. They said they want to do one thing but when you asked them let me see what you got so far or give advice they don’t play on it. Or if they say if you continue to clean while I play the game but yells at you to not get in his way when he’s on the game what the fuck are you suppose to do. I so sick of it always being my fault for his lack of motivation. He’s always yelling at me so when I do it it’s wrong.

What the fuck am I suppose to do when I’ve been trying to do all I can without actually doing it for him and trying to get myself together as well.

I need to get myself a car and get my teeth fixed but how can I do that when all my money goes to bills for the house and his fucking phone bill or paying his ppl back from them paying his phone bill. And I’m five months pregnant with his child and I have a four year old son who needs clothes like I’m doing all I can without stressing myself out. I’ve tried looking for another job but I’m not working in food service anymore so I’m screwed. I’ve done so much for this bum ass for him to tell me I’m not motivating him.

Sorry about the long rant