Frustrated

I've been married for two years now and with my husband for five years. I started a new job recently and found myself developing feelings for someone else. I would never act on those feelings because I love my husband but I feel like shit for even having them. The problem is my husband doesn't spend time with me or show me any affection. I get one kiss a day when he leaves for work if I'm lucky and that's it. I've tried talking to him about how I feel but he doesn't add anything to the conversation ever and then just uses the excuse "I'm just not an emotional person" He says that he loves me every day but he just doesn't act like it or show me it and I think that's the only reason I've developed feelings for someone else is because that guy talks to me about more things than my husband even does. I don't even know what to do at this point because trying to talk doesn't help but I'm tired of being in a relationship where I don't get any affection or attention. I don't want to just leave him and give up after five years and we have two daughters together but I don't want to be in a marriage where I'm the only one making any effort. I'm just frustrated and tired and want to feel wanted by someone again. 🙁