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Ok so todays my husbands 24th birthday and we have 2 kids but they’re spending the night @family members house bc obviously we can’t drink and take care of our LO’s . tonight we had company over and we were all having a good timeeeee but out of no wherre my BIL was leaving & he comes back in tbe house and pushed my husband so hard wherre he bumped into the glass window , i think my husband said something to him where he just came back in the house and pushed my husband so hard, broke the glass window and cut his elbow bad!! 
Idk how the fuck to feel rn , im livid and idk where this anger came from but my husband is out here crying bc his brother just left and doesn’t give two fucks about his actions! And it’s his birthday like dude wtf.... 
How would u react ? What would u do!? 
It was random honestly... as a wife /baby mother , idk i just want to go crazy bc of how this all just happened but I can’t..

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I’d be pissed but don’t get in the middle of it. Either he said something, or he was just pissed? 
But I’d say to your husband dont speak to him let him apologize especially since he hurt your husband badly and if he doesn’t well that’s his loss. 
I personally have gotten to the point in my life where arguments just aren’t worth it! 
My fiancé isn’t speaking to his sister at the moment because she decided to be nasty about our second pregnancy (because her relationship isn’t going well) hell I was mad, but I left it and i feel much better for it, an argument wouldn’t solve anything but we aren’t chasing for an apology. 
I hope he and yourself are okay, and that that he had a good birthday minus that happening.

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Since hes only 24...good chance they havent gotten past that sibling stage where they do things like that...but they need to quick because you two have 2 kids and his brother can't go around assaulting him just cause he heard something that made him angry.
Like if this was a stranger good shot charges would have been pressed. 
Dont go to your BIL or anything. But after a few days or whatever talk to your husband about this. How this type of behavior cannot happen. And he needs to speak to his brother or create some distance. Cause you dont want this happening in front of your kids.

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Report him

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