Idiot Father

Does anyone else have a husband who SUCKS at being a father? Like he loves his kids,provides for them but spends very little time with them and the time he does spend alone with them its dangerous😒For example when my daughter was 3 she got his razor out of the suitcase. Im packing our bags and hear her screaming bloody murder but think "oh hes in their,he will get her". Nope! I come running in and shes smacking him with blood all over her hand and he doesnt even budge,too busy playing video games. When he does watch our 10 week old im nervous the whole time. Hes playing video games with ear phones on,throws a bottle in the babies mouth and puts him in the swing hoping he falls asleep. Its so freakin dangerous!!! Several yrs ago I had a job but was getting calls from our neighbor "oh your daughter is at our house,she said her Dad is asleep on the couch". Mind u she was like 8 then but still so dangerous! Fast forward,our daugter is now 11 and we have a 10 week old. He hasnt gotten up once to help take care of him,partly because he wakes up at 4am for work but mostly because I dont trust him. Just today I wanted to nap but dont feel comfortable napping because hes just laying on the couch letting our 11 yr old take care of our 10 week old. He says "oh shes just playing with him"😡Like mother fuc%%^ he ain't a toy to play with. Its only a matter of time until he falls asleep and expects her to take care of him....Im upstairs eyes burning because of how tired iam but cant sleep because im listening for our daughter and baby. Im so sick of how freakin immature he is with our kids! Hes literally just like another kid in the house. He makes excellent money and is a wonderful provider but thats it! Doesnt contribute to household duties,barely responsibly watches over our kids and on the weekends lays on our couch. Oh,he lays on our couch so much that its got a huge indent in it and we are now buying a new couch because of it.... Its gotten so bad that im not even attracted too him anymore,I just see another person for me to raise,no partnership whatsoever. Uhg,the list could go on and on...