What to do?

My mom loves LO very much but I have a couple of issues. First, she tries to give her grand baby almost everything. Ice cream, a whole apple to chew on, compote, soup, you name it. I tell her not to but she tries when I'm not looking.

The other is, she dislikes my husband to the point that we are not having Christmas dinner all together as per usual. She has negative opinions on him and she doesn't care to know him. She also comments how the baby could have anger issues might be getting from dad since she gets so cranky real fast (she's teething)

I think this can affect my LO later on about her view on her father. Who knows what my mom talks about when I'm not around.