S/o family drives me crazy!!!

So I’m not trying to be insensitive with any of this. My boyfriends brother is a recovering addict, he made my bf move out of his parents house because he was getting kicked out and couldn’t afford to live on his own...he stole money countless times from my boyfriend as well as change from his change jar, stole his car, had all kinds of drug paraphernalia and pull scrapers in there and got it impounded...the list goes on and on. I’m not trying to belittle his recovery at ALL. I am proud of him for that. But how do I try and look past all that? I truly do not like him and it makes it very hard because we are on vacation together with his family:(