Thoughts

So this is the situation, I’ve been in and out of a relationship with the father of my boys I came to a point where I was completely done and I didn’t want him nor cared for about him I just felt I wasted so much time because he was just a big ass hole he did me dirty & I left rn we just hang out on the weekends because of our 2 boys and we don’t have to but he wants me to be there & we’ve been doing fine as friends he’s asked me more than once to move out with him but I alway say if he’s not ready for something serious or ready to fully commit I don’t want to live with him Because what I want is something completely different I’m a home body we’re both 23 and he has a daughter which of course I love as my own She’s gotten so close to me even when me & him were not dating I’d still have her sleep over & what not . I just don’t want move out with him if he feels this is the only way he’s going to be able to get out of where he is and I honestly feel this is exactly what that is

Honest opinions please

Btw I don’t know why the picture is so blurry maybe because I scribbled his name out ??