Jealous

My fiancé works at a company which is mostly girls, there are guys but apparently he doesn’t really get along with them. Basically all of his friends are girls, who have asked him to go out to dinner, lunch etc with other girls, which he invited me to because I think he knows I won’t be that comfortable and I might say something about it. I have gone to a couple of these things with his lady friends, but when he goes by himself I don’t feel comfortable, especially when it’s only him and another girl, I know that they are just friends etc but I can’t help but feel a bit jealous or wonder if he really had to go with her alone.

My fiancé loves me more than anything, he always shows me and tells me, he is an amazing person and I’m his first. But I’ve also seen him checking out other girls occasionally, and doesn’t realise when a girls flirting with him and goes with it. And I guess his mum wasn’t the biggest fan when she found if we are getting married and suggested “there’s other girls out there” when he first told her he is serious about me a couple years ago. I guess those things add to it.

I should also add, my ex broke up with me to get married to another girl that his parents wanted him to marry within a few months of breaking up.

I guess I want to know how to not feel so uncomfortable that almost all of his friends are girls, and all of his catchups outside of work are with girls. Is it normal to feel this way? Am I being too jealous?