I had my D&C just 2 days ago and I've already heard the rudest things....
"This was Gods plan." - Excuse me, but I liked my plan better.
My male cousin (who has a adorable 4 year old) said - "Sorry for your loss, but at least you get to try again. That's the fun part!"
Why is it so hard for people to be nice?! I lost a child! You may not have been able to see that the child existed, but I was growing it. It made me a mom. I am a mom. This isn't like "Oops, I've lost my coat. I'll just go buy another one." IT WAS MY BABY!