Opinions on being unfaithful?

Question

Okay so... I've known this guy since I was 14 and he was 19... he always showed interest in me and we went out a couple of times but nothing serious, he never tried anything sexual. He always said" when you're 18 you'll be my girlfriend" fast forward 5 years later, Im 19, he's 24. He is in a "relationship" but we see each other like once or twice a month for sex, its been almost a year. His relationship is "open" but Im starting to feel like Im doing something very very wrong 😖 Im aware his girlfriend knows he meets me and he's aware his girlfriend sees other guys but still.... to be honest I just like the sex, he's the BEST, i dont feel anything for him though so is it even worth it?? I know I deserved to be judged 😭

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So what? Sex is fun. As long as you're being safe and all who the hell cares, if it's an open relationship like you say then it's open for what he's doing with you. It would be different if he wasn't and his girlfriend didn't know about you. I don't consider that even being unfaithful in his part.

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If they are an open relationship then you aren't doing nothing wrong. It's perfectly fine to have a active and healthy sex life. Don't let anyone tell you that it's wrong. Buttttttt, if you are uncomfortable doing it personally, you probably shouldn't.

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Well if your confident she knows your set up like have you guys discussed it as a group or seen her be informed then this bits fine.

I assume it has to be just sex and no real emotions, if this is the case a he isn't falling for u and ur not falling for him then this is fine.

Then just ensure that you use protection and get tested regually.

If the sex is good and you want to carry on.... Carry on ;)

Swinger here so plenty of this experience, basically honesty and safety rule

Opinions on being unfaithful?

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