Early bed time 😩

My little one will fall asleep at 5pm and thinks that’s bed time. She will be down for the night well until about midnight then it’s up every hour after that. The only times she sleeps good is if we’ve been out with her then come home. She will fall asleep between 9-10 and then wake around 5. I can’t keep her up as she is so tired and I can’t go out every single day to try and keep her up. Worst part is I go back to work soon and will be at work the whole time she’s awake and she will already be fast asleep by the time I come home. She will never see me 😭😭😭