Renewing Vows-Advice

Our(my husband and I) 4 year anniversary is today. We got married 4 years ago today, in the court house with our close family then went out to a nice dinner with everyone. I want to have an actual ceremony next year, on our 5 year. He doesn't have any opinions and won't give me any input. We also want to go on a big,nice vacation this year. Once again he hasn't given me any advice or input. He literally careless about everything except coffee,jeeps and building stuff. So I need ideas for something simple,yet beautiful. What I'm asking for is advice, or similar stories? How much did you spend on a vow renewal? Who all did you invite? Where did you have it? Where did you go on a honeymoon? Did you vacation before or after? Did you have budget? How did you stay in budget?