Does your man help around the house

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Me and my bf recently moved on together all he has to do is take the trash out i cook clean and wash clothes, today i asked if he would help change the bed hang up some curtains etc he said no i complained nd he goes fine get the shit hurry up, i dont do shit like this my mom does, i responded well go back to your moms sp she can cook, clean and wash yo shit, i mean i don't think im asking for to much

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I clean , do dishes and all that kind of stuff but my boyfriend does all the cooking

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Your not asking for too much at all.. I have Iived with my SO for over a year now and I think he has done the dishes maybe four times? And I have to make him do that.. Boys are just like that.. At least mine is. I have learned to live with it and accept that cause I love him. So I guess I don't mind spoiling him.

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I do mostly everything except for outdoor work. I'm not really an outdoors type of person so he does that when he feels necessary.  He cooks sometimes, and will clean the kitchen and sometimes do the laundry if I ask. Since I've gotten pregnant he's been doing a lot more to help me because I am considered high risk. Any time he does anything I make sure he knows I appreciate it. On the days he does more I try to help but he just wants me to rest and not do much.

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My husband does 90% of the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and tending to the cats. He married me knowing I'm disabled. On a good day, I can help and he knows now not to tell me to stop or go rest, because I need to feel like I'm contributing. We discussed all of this while we were still just dating. I work a full time job as a teacher, so he can either have the contribution of my income or I could stay home and occasionally be able to stand up long enough to cook a meal or do a load of dishes. I have disability accommodations at work, so I sit to teach all day.

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I think that's something a lot of couples don't think to discuss, because they each have completely different expectations.
 When my husband and I first moved in together, I was always doing all of the housework. It sparked a couple of big fights when I got fed up with it, but once we really discussed it and i told him why we both should split the chores since we both worked full time, he got it and helps out anytime I ask him to. 
He still doesn't really do it on his own but he doesn't have an attitude when I ask for help. I think it's fair to expect help if you're both generating dirty clothes and dishes!

Any guy that expects you to do everything wants a mother, not a partner.

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i do everything as far as the house because my husband works 12hours every day and i stay home with our 4yo. if he didnt work as much or has the day off he offers to help but i still decline lol.

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We split everything down the middle. We both cook, both clean, both do laundry. I was in a relationship like that once. Happy I got out.

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Mi husband takes care of the yard takes out trash and does most of the cooking he loves to cook so pretty much I do the rest he might clean kitchen on days off 😁

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I wash the clothes and we both put our own away. We both cook dinner and we both pick up after ourselves.

I would not be able to deal with doing it all alone.

Go back with mom if you don't want to be an adult!

You are not a butler, You are a partner.

I work 3 jobs and he has a full time job so that could be why we split it all 50/50.

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I clean, cook, and do laundry. He takes care of the animals and does garbage. Along with outside work, mowing the lawn, gets mail, scoops poop.

Does your man help around the house

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