My ex and i have not gotten along since i got pregnant. mostly because he told me to get an abortion and then continued to date other women after. He has treared me horribly since the beginning and now i’m almost 28 weeks. I plan on not putting him on the birth certificate because he’s made no effort after i waited and gave him a chance to make one. Now his “dad” who isn’t even his step dad and has no relation to him or my daughter is trying to get all this information out of me about my due date and everything.

Am i wrong for not telling them? I feel bad but i also had an open door for an effort to be made and none was. His family has enabled all his behavior for the abortion talk, the nasty messages he’s sent me, and then give me the excuse that he’s “scared”.

In the end i know it’s my decision, but i just don’t wanna feel so horrible for being cold to that “side” of the family. :(