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For those of you in relationships I just wanted to ask if this was true or not. When you first started going on dates with your s/o and you finally kissed, did you feel a spark? If not and you continued to go on more dates, did you feel a spark then? Is it a true indicator of whether it’s meant to be or not? Doesn’t have to be a soul mate or “the one” but someone you’re currently dating or if you’re married you remember feeling. Is the spark just a myth? Or I haven’t had enough passion or met someone yet who can make me feel a “spark”? Can someone share and explain if you felt it and how you knew 😊

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I think it feels different if it’s someone you really like. Kissing my boyfriend and my ex boyfriend is/was more exciting and felt better than kissing random guys lol. Idk if id call it a spark. I think it’s just general pleasure and affection.

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To be honest there was a connect but no spark right at first, but he made one hell of an impression on me in more ways then one. So we started dating then it was fun n party got pregnant. Then he made a full life style change that's when there was full love, spark and knowing he was the one.

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Yes and no. I felt a spark with both guys I dated.  The thing is the "spark" i felt with my first boyfriend was NOTHING even close to the spark I felt with my husband. With my first boyfriend I though i was in love and because i felt a "spark". i thought he was the one. Turned out he was NOT. Then comes my husband i wouldn't even call it a spark more like a smoldering fire that over time the wind  gently blows on till you get a forest fire. Something drew me to him for reasons i can't put my finger on. We weren't even dating but i was helping him work( farming help they were in need of help and i was the only one he knew that was available) we were riding in a tractor and a song came on that i had never heard. ( She's in love with the boy by Trisha yearwood) I knew. I  heard a voice in my head. "even if you have to run away, your going to marry that boy someday"  we started dating a few weeks later and 18 months after almost running away, we  got married.  We still to this day we can't explain how we knew or why we ended up together but it is the best thing that has ever happened to me.  So yes sparks are real. Just don't trust them completely. You can feel a spark with someone who is not right.

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I've just felt myself drawn to him since the day we met. I fell hard and fast, long before we got together. We met in February-march of 2014. By July I was in love him. He unfortunately ended up with someone else for awhile. They broke up middle of 2015 sometime. We reconnected after they broke up. In January if 2016 my grandfather died and my best friend and I went out to take my mind off of it and we invited him. During the movie we were next to each other and our pinkies touched and eventually we linked them together. we went out to dinner (all 3 of us) and him and I flirted the whole time. In the car he sat behind me and we held hands. 
After that we grew close and we expressed our feelings but he didn't feel ready for a relationship. I suggested FWB and he at first said no, he didn't want it to be hard on me. My feelings for him were deeper than his for me at that point. We eventually decided to try FWB. That was March if 2016, and we're still together. We never officially dtr, we ended up later on deciding in July 6, 2016 (the day Pokemon go came out lol) as our anniversary since we didn't really have one. 
We tried a few times before we got together to see other people, but we always found our way back. We took a break at one point as this got more serious than we expected pretty fast. But that only lasted 2 week. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me.

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I have a bf but we’ve nvr kisses 😭😭

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I did not feel a spark during my first kiss with my boyfriend or 4 years now lol. It was nice but... At the time I was so sick of men in general and when he told me he wanted to kiss me, he said all shyly and sweetly “soo there’s been something I’ve been wanting to do for a while now” and I cut him off and I was like “well come over here and do it then” with a bitchy attitude 🤣 I was so mean my poor bby 🤣 I just was not in the right mindset at all. But yes after I got to know him better and got feelings for him there were definitely “sparks” during our kisses. I think a “spark” is just mutual yearning for each other.

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Honestly, feeling a spark when you kiss someone can happen with anyone. I’ve kissed plenty of people and maybe only a handful have given a “spark” to me. My first boyfriend always did that, but he obviously wasn’t a soulmate at all. 😂 one guy was the most amazing kisser I’d ever had, but it was just an amazing kiss, not really a spark. And my current boyfriend, who is probably my soulmate, I didn’t have any kind of spark with him for a long time. And to be frank, I had to fix how he kissed me because it was just not great 😂 I wouldn’t focus on deciding if you get a spark or not determines if he’s “marriage” or “soulmate” material. Because honestly, the best spark kisses always came from someone I trusted, the moment, what he said before, the place, or because in my mind I decided “wow this is going to be an amazing kiss” and that’s really all it was. BUT, with all of that said if you’re not enjoying the kiss or anything like that, maybe tell whoever your kissing to stop pulling away or change whatever it is that’s annoying you. And also, most of my spark kisses came from guys I really really really liked, which was bad because it made me like guys that were probably not good for me way way way more than I should 😂

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