Ddlg or not?

I'm trying to figure out if I fit into Ddlg or if I'm just into the kink part of it, because I know their is a difference between the kink and the relationship aspect. For starters I've always loved my stuffies and my bed is covered with them and that will never change, I also love my super soft big fluffy blankets and I have loads of those along with soft pillows all over my bed... but I also dress in all black and wear dark makeup with doesnt sound like a very Little thing to do 😅 I also have no clue about "little space" like I know doing stuff like watching Disney, cuddling, snacks, and juice are usually a part of that and I'm super down for that but I cant do other stuff. I dont like playing with toys, I dont suck on thumbs or wear diapers, I dont baby talk, and I dont do stuff like coloring books. So I'm confused to wrether that's "Little material" or if I'm just into the kinky part. Because I like all the aspects of a caretaker, I'm the part I'm having trouble with.