Decisions decisions...

I'm very torn as I'm sitting here deciding whether or not to do a baby shower. This is baby #2 (idk the gender yet) and we had a big one for my first. I only lean towards having one because it wouldn't be fair to this baby.

Also, my daughters 2nd birthday is around the time we would aim for a baby shower. And that's just too many events to plan and money to spend.

The thing that is making the decision hard is that my husband I live with his parents, so we are planning to move out. Baby showers cost too much (I couldn't ask and wouldn't ask anyone to host us one either, I mean especially since it's baby #2). We should just save and put towards moving out.

We are gonna need things too, ofc for the new baby. And I was hoping to get those from our registry, if we decide to the have a baby shower. But my husband said the money we save on the baby shower we can buy the things ourselves. Makes sense, I guess.

I really have my hopes up on moving out but I also want this baby to feel special. Idk what to do😔