High sex drive struggles 😫

How do you ladies deal when you have a higher sex drive than your man? I literally want it every day and he’s more a 2-3 times a week dude now that we’ve been together 6 years. He’ll watch porn daily and I worry maybe I’m just not good enough. I’ll try to give him a BJ and ride him so he’s not doing all the work but he’d rather smoke a bowl and watch Netflix. But then he gets mad because I take care of myself? Only after I’ve tried to fuck with him though. 😤