Things that didn't bother me then but do now..

Growing up certain things didn't bother me, but with this past TTC journey they do. Let me just make a list:

1.) pregnancy pranks:

There are women including myself who are struggling to get pregnant

2.)Women who just get pregnant for attention:

There are many women who would LOVE to be in your pregnancy shoes right now and not for the likes on Facebook or the attention

3.) Teenagers that get pregnant and push the kid off on someone else to go party/live wild:

As a teenager I didn't want kids, but as a woman that desperately wants a baby seeing teenagers pop out babies only to shove them on their parents so they can go hang out and party and live it up pisses me off

If you don't want a baby, dont have one. As stated MANY times before, there are women including myself who want nothing more than to have a baby for the RIGHT REASONS and raise it and love it. pregnancy isn't a way to gain attention, babies gain you attention until it gets older, but if you don't want to buckle down and raise the life that you made, don't have a baby. Prayers for the women still TTC, and please send loads of baby dust my way. This journey is hard, but in the end it will be worth it 🙏🏻