Why do people have to be like this?

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It sucks, I can't do anything without judgement.
Literally nothing because I have a child. Who is 2 mind you. So why shouldn't I be allowed to go to Dave and Buster's and have a drink with old friends once a month? Why can't I dress how I wanna dress? I'm not super post partum, not that it should matter anyway, but I should be allowed to wear tank tops and shorts when it's hot and get dressed up when I feel like it!
Oh and forget keeping up on myself! I'm a HORRIBLE person if I want to get my hair and nails done  (which I do at home ANYWAY) AND keep up on my eye brows? Am I suppose to look like a freaking cave man? Is that what is expected for us women now? 
I'm so over it.

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Misery loves company. Don’t matter what people say/think. As long as baby and you are healthy and happy, that’s all that matters. Nothing is wrong with Feeling good, looking good!

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What?? 
Oh hun the better you feel the better everyone around you feels ! Taking care of yourself is important and you sound like your doing a great job as a mum just ignore the idiots who tell you otherwise. 
You don’t need to look a mess to be a good mum and people who think that are just 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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I do what I want as a mother and have never once ran into any of these problems. Stop living for the acceptance of others. You are never going to get it.

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Are people actually hardcore judging you or have you taken a few comments to heart? People say shit all the time, you're not obliged to care about it. Nothing you've described is worth being judged over. So they must have some big ol sticks up their arses if they insist on saying that shit to you. Ignore them!

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Who’s judging you?

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Self care is important. I am a mom of 3, about to be 4 and I dare anyone to shame me for wanting to look decent! Although, I don't get my nails done anymore, I do however like to get my hair done and get a tan and it isn't going to hurt you to have adult time once a month either!! As long as your daughter is in good care with someone you trust, and has everything she needs, no need feel bad for being an adult once a month either! People shame people over some of the most ridiculous things. I was a single mom of 2, I hardly went out but when my 2 would go to their dad's for a random weekend, it was great to have dinner and drinks with another adult!

Why do people have to be like this?

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