Weight gain $!&@ 😡

First time mom here - currently 16 w 2 d. I am SICK of everything online telling me “don’t gain too much weight” “don’t eat too much” “eating for two is a myth doctors wish you would unlearn”. I am honestly so pissed off. Before pregnancy I weighed 160lb (I’m 5”4) so about 15lb overweight. That 160 is something I worked hard to maintain- eating healthy, playing sports, excercise that was my weight. Now I’m the type of girl who can put on 10lb by looking at a sandwich- honestly I can gain weight so easily and fast. When I got pregnant my whole world turned upside down with constant naseau and vomiting I threw up carrots one day... honestly carrots... needless to say I gained 15lb pretty quick and now I’m sitting at 180 (20lb gain) but I haven’t gained in 3 weeks. I honestly feel like a piece of garbage because of the internet and I am eating only slightly different then I was before pregnancy I just PCK ON weight. Please tell me others are so fed up with this bull crap and feeling so so guilty for nothing!!!!! Here’s a few pics