leaving

i’m not sure where to post this, so i thought you ladies might have some advice.

I have decided to leave my husband. We have been married for 8 years. I love him but I am just so unhappy. He has severe adhd and it affects our lives so much and he refuses to get any kind of help. it’s affecting our kids and my mental health so much. I just don’t know where to start to get on my feet. i have been a stay at home mom since our first was born in 2014. I did get a job, and I start friday. it’s not much, but it’s something. I just don’t know where to begin or what to do.