My brother-in-law has been on tinder talking to other girls and actually hanging out with them at their houses. That I’m aware of, he hasn’t slept with anyone. He and my sister-in-law had their second child at the end of December, should I tell her?

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if you don't say anything you're just as bad as he is

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I would let your husband know and have him break the news 
It could get really messy if you’re incolved

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I think if it’s your husbands brother you need to stay out of it. 
I mean you can throw her some subtle but very subtle hints but given it’s your husbands brother and you’re tied for life with him I wouldn’t put right tell the girl but rather say things to make her think something is up with him.

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Two weeks after having a baby, the last thing I would want to know is my husband is cheating on me. I would talk to your husband about what to do but I think you two should have a conversation with the brother in law and tell him you’re onto his game and he needs to straighten out or else he is dead.

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Get proof first if you are going to tell her. And she may get pissed at you and take it out on you. Because you are the one that broke up her family. I told a woman one time and that woman was insane. I won’t ever get involved again in other people’s business. But I’m just putting it out there to brace yourself. Some women attack you. And are in Denial that you are lying about their husband he would never do that that you are trying to break up their home blah blah blah. Some women are thankful. Good luck either way.

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I think you should mind your business honestly I know you feel bad I would as well however it can get bad for you don’t get involved, that’s  your mans family at the end of the day . Me personally I wouldn’t..  I been in a situation very similar & the person just ended up taking him back & they BOTH stopped talking to me & made family gatherings awkward asf . Hence why my man at the time just said to me “  mind your business” I learned my lesson lol eventually what’s done in the dark will come to light trust me .

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If talk to your hubbt and see if he should talkcto his brother or his sister in law. He might be able to intervene better and figure out what the heck his brother thinks he's doing. But I do think she should know

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I'd definitely tell her

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Granted that's not something anyone really wants to hear nd may not be happy to hear it from you but in the long run would appreciate it especially if there is proof. I would tell her and let her know I'm sincerely just want you to know some people get defensive but you really are being a friend/good in law

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For someone that has been through that (except we didn’t have kids together), I wish someone would’ve told me when they knew before we even got married, because I surely wouldn’t have married him and then leave 2 1/2 months after we got married because I found out he was on dating apps. His family knew he was one them. But, make sure you have proof if you decide to tell her.

My brother-in-law has been on tinder talking to other girls and actually hanging out with them at their houses. That I’m aware of, he hasn’t slept with anyone. He and my sister-in-law had their second child at the end of December, should I tell her?

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