I miss sex.

Not sure where to post..Just wanting to vent because I have no one to talk to. My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We use to have the best sex ever but over the last 3 years, it’s gone down the drain. I’ve tried everything..toys, lingerie, dirty talk. You name it, I’ve probably tried it. It’s really starting to get to me mentally because I feel unwanted. I’ve talked to him multiple times but nothing changes from it. He’s either “tired” or his back hurts, there’s always an excuse. I get jealous of the wives who actually complain about their husbands wanting sex. I don’t know what to do anymore.