Am I over reacting?

Imagine being ill looking after your 1 year old, cleaning and tidying up all day. Hubby asks if you can cook a chicken dinner, so I do for all 3 of us. Finally sitting down to eat, having general chit chat for him to turn round and say "dont fucking tell me what to do" all because we were talking about healthy eating and I said "you can have a treat once a week jeez" but in jokey laughing way. I was shocked and upset, I said to him "that was a bit much?" And he said "maybe a little" he hasn't even apologized..