Resentment

Do any of you have resentment towards your significant other because you are doing most of the work? I feel so bad for feeling that way because I wanted children but still feel annoyed that I do the majority of the work. It gets so hard balancing a newborn and toddler that when I get frustrated I get mad at him.

He helps some but when you are nursing the baby needs mom all the time and hard to break away. Husband is not a morning person so I am running around changing diapers, getting sister dressed and fed, nursing newborn, etc..

Do you expect 50% 50% when it comes to caring for the kids or is it the mom’s job to do it all? I know times have changed and it Is 2020.

I also work full time but am obviously on maternity leave and will go back in a few months. Husband works inconsistently.

I feel like I am lazy, ungrateful, and even bitter. I should be happy to do it all right?