Do you find this unnecessary and/or too jealous??

So i saw this on facebook and it immediately pissed me off being that I used to wait tables. I had MANY women give me rude stares and rude behavior towards me because I was simply a kind server and wasnt afraid to ask a man his order.like what's the point with this kind of hostility?? I mean sometimes it's clear and obvious if somebody is flirting, but having had the table-waiting experience, I had many instances where I was in NO way flirting, but women automatically assumed that I was because I talked to the man lol.