My boyfriend has a nude calendar hung up open on his wall. We’ve been together for a while now and I noticed it the first time I ever went over but it wasn’t too big of a deal to me so I never asked him to take it down. Several months later I’m going through body image issues and he is trying to help me through them but the other day I mentioned the calendar for the first time ever. He said he hadn’t used it since before we started dating which I believe because it’s been on the same page but then my insecure self was like well maybe she’s just the prettiest girl in the calendar. I didn’t say that to him but I asked him why he still had it up and he said it’s because his dad used to call him gay and I told him that his dad should know he’s not seeing how serious we are getting. He continued to tell me that if he took the calendar down his dad would say he’s pussy whipped. I didn’t say anything back because all I could think was do you not want your dad to think this relationship is something you take seriously. I just looked at the calendar and he said it’s not coming down. I know it’s not that big of a deal in the scheme of things I’m just really struggling with my insecurities so if anyone could give any words of advice or encouragement that would be amazing.