I’m suddenly turned on by porn... and a very specific type. How do I involve my husband?
This is hysterical because I’m in my 20s and married, yet only really “discovered” porn like, a month ago? I’ve been masturbating for like 5ish years (not that I do it much now, being married) but porn always grossed me out my whole life... then about a year ago, my husband had an idea to watch porn together and then have sex. I didn’t get super turned on by it (just strangers having sex didn’t really do anything for me?) but my husband got sooo into it that we ended up having amazing sex, and I appreciated it and didn’t mind just because of what it did for him lol.
We’ve only watched porn together like twice ever, and haven’t done it in a long time. But so the other night I was having trouble sleeping so I decided to masturbate because sometimes that helps. I suddenly just like... had the urge to watch porn, on my own, for the first time ever...
So I then discovered that I’m extremely aroused by female porn. It’s not like it has to be “lesbian” porn or anything, but like I get off by watching a clit/vagina get rubbed/played with. I literally came in about a minute because this turned me on so much. I did it again about a week later, and this time just found a video of a woman masturbating and just like, seeing someone else’s vagina get pleasured like that just sends me through the roof somehow.
ANYWAY. I feel like a teenager who finally just discovered porn for the first time (LOL) and I feel like I really want to share this with my husband and help it improve our sex life too...? I’ve started imagining how hot it would be to watch one of these videos and like have him rub me along with the video.
But at this point, we’ve been together for 5 years and I’ve always said I’m so eh about porn and kinda grossed out by it at times, idk how to just bring it up to him like out of the blue suddenly “hey honey, by the way I just discovered I’m actually really turned on by female masturbation porn, can we like... do that?” It’s not like I can just suggest watching porn in general because like, watching penetrative sex porn does nothing for me, it’s like only watching foreplay/masturbation gets me off.
Advice? And/or anyone relate to getting so turned on by just this type of porn specifically? Lol
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