Boyfriend too honest? Help?
We are in a happy relationship and he is very sweet and caring one things bothers me sometimes and it’s him thinking out loud. I know he is free to have any opinion and i give him that but saying it loud hurts me sometimes. Like on our first date he said i have a mustache or later he said sorry he was distracted staring at a girls leg. Said i am a bad kisser, or this dress makes me look fat, or that he doesn’t like what im wearing or he doesn’t like the way i look in that picture. Or that he doesn’t like my haircut. Or that he has an innocent crush on this girl Or that this random girl is hot or has a nice ass or that other girl is pretty or is a type he would go for ( also said that about guys assuming if he was a girl) he also compliments guys to me. He compliments girls on their face (guys less) but doesn’t say negative honset things to them. ( there were times were he also told me he doesn’t like what this girl is wearing etc) He also many times compliments me and tells me that he likes this or that or calls me hot and beautiful etc. but it bothers me when other people compliment me and he is silent or says honest negative opinions about my looks. Also the fact that he only compliments people and says no negative thing to their face makes me think that maybe they are perfect and im not good enough since my compliments are not always only positive. I told him it bothers me and he says that he wants to be honest and not scared of me but still it bothers me and i have told him many times already and he says he feels pressured now to compliment me. What should i do?
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