So my husband and I are hoping to start TTC starting a minimum time of 1.5 years from now. I know it's not really that long to wait. We've gotten to the point where were financially stable, but he's going into an intensive 1 year masters program next year for teaching. We were wanting to wait until he was at least 1/2 way through the program to start trying (that way we'll have more money when the baby comes around)... Thing is... I really want to have a baby here. I have lupus and my specialist I love is here, the hospital has a really great and progressive birthing unit here, and our family is here as well. I'm kind of terrified to try for a baby with little to no idea of where we'll be when the baby is born. Also. My health is really great right now... Who knows what my health will be like 2-3 years down the road for me to be able to handle
pregnancy well (I'm only turning 21 tomorrow, but with lupus you never know-however I do seem to have only a mild-moderate case... So that's good). I guess I just need yall to talk me off the ledge. As long as I do my research a move shouldn't be TOO hard 1/2 way through
pregnancy, right? Especially since he would get the teaching job right before we started trying and I could do all sorts of research and visits during that time.
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