My husbands job

My daughter needs a minor surgery. Nothing super major just getting tubes put in her ears so she will have to be put out and we do have to go to a surgery center. My husbands job as usual is sending him out of town the day of her surgery. So now not only will he be gone on Valentine’s Day for the 3rd year in a row as well as missing our anniversary he is also going to be gone for this. I know it’s not a major surgery and will take like 20 minutes but she’s 3, never had anything like this before and she’s a huge daddy’s girl so yay for me I get to handle all of this totally by myself. I hate his job with a burning passion.