Sooo sad and confused

So I have been speaking and meeting up with a guy I met on tinder four months ago, he haden’t changed anything about his profile since then, that was until today when he has updated his pictures and added a new bio, the thing is last week I told him I really liked him and this was his reply:

I am sooo sad and I don’t know what’s happening anymore, what do you guys suggest I do? 😢😢

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An

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Are y’all official? If not then I’d say he’s free to change his bio and pics and talk to other people unless y’all agreed to be exclusive.

th

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He likes you but isnt interested in anything more than something casual

Br

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He can like you and still date other people. You guys aren't exclusive. You can continue to see him, but I suggest not putting all your eggs in one basket.

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It honestly sounds like he never had any intentions of making things official with you and was probably talking to other people as well. I mean he didn’t do anything wrong, you guys aren’t actually together, so it’s not like he isn’t allowed to do these things.

Mo

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Meet up with him next week as he’s suggesting. When you see him in person, ask him if he has any interest in being exclusive with you or if his intentions are to find something long-term or not. I think if you like him, you should get these questions out of the way and get clear about what he really wants so that you don’t waste your time and energy on someone who just wants to hook up. If you’ve never spoken about this, then he has every right to be seeing other people.

Ma

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He may “like” you but by updating his dating profile I think that says a lot about where he is emotionally. He clearly is not ready to commit to one person and is still being the single man that he is. If you are looking for something serious then I would move on from this before you get more hurt than what you are now.