How long does it take to stop hurting?

Question

Yesterday I broke up with my everything.
My childs father
My highschool sweet heart
The man I planned to marry
The only man I've ever had sex with.
The man I sadly still love and I'm crying while I write this. He's hit me cheated hurt me but saying we are over hurts more then anything. I don't know why I love him still but I do I want to run back but I know i can't but this shit physically hurts I can't breathe my head hurts I cry myself to sleep I just want him to love me but he hurt me😭 I don't know what to do or how to act anymore I feel so broken

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It will stop hurting when you realise he was a piece of scum for hitting you and cheating on you.

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Girl, I’ve been there. I was sexually abused by my ex. I was also emotionally, mentally, and physically abused by him. He ALWAYS told me I’d never be good enough for anyone. And it got to the point where I believed him. Leaving him was really hard. He would never let me leave him (didn’t help we lived together). He took everything away from me including my service dog just to keep me from leaving him. He threatened me so I wouldn’t leave him. But the best thing I ever did was leave him. And now here I am, married to an amazing guy and a baby growing in me. Trust me, you’ll heal. Just enjoy life single 😊

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Trust me, I've been there and done that. If he cheated on you once, he will do it again.  Same with hitting you. You never know, try online dating, and you might actually find a decent, sweet guy, who you are just as attracted to. I never thought it was possible, but it actually is. Let him go.

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It may take some time to feel better. Days will come that are amazing and you think you got this and days will come when you don't want to move. It's all about remembering you deserve better than that. And it's also about allowing yourself to feel whatever you are feeling.
But to make it easier in the long run, drop contact with him as best as you can. It's hard now but it'll help you heal.

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It takes time but you deserve better .... make yourself as busy as possible ... go out more , spend time with friends and family more so you don’t have to worry about him . It’s hard but at the end of the day you’re going to feel more better & stronger that you did what was best for you !!

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It takes time, love. Be kind and patient with yourself. This is still fresh and you’re in the berg first stages of grief.

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You'll get thru it , its a process but it's worth it girl ❤❤ he was alot to.you so it hurts more but once you move on and live yourself you'll feel great

How long does it take to stop hurting?

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