I need boy advice

I have no friends.

I need advice, my boyfriend won't let me have a job, descurages me constantly. I try so hard to keep our house clean and kid fed.

He makes fun of my fat, tells me i don't do enough. Goes days on days without ever touching much less sex. I've been dealing with this 3 years, we have a 1 year old and another on the way. Girls im telling you i try everyday. He won't listen to my problems. His family hates me and I've never wanted to leave more to be happy.