Over being the breadwinner

I hate being the main and sometimes sole income provider. I really want to be a SAHM. At least for a few years. I accepted that I would always need to work at least part time because that is just reality. I don't think it would bother me as much if the times when my husband is out of work, if he would do more around the house. But if I don't do things they just don't get done.

Sometimes this makes me feel like a "bad" or "fake" feminist. But feminism is supposed to be more about having choices and equality.