I hate that stuff. I'm so glad my parents and in-laws were respectful enough not to do this, because my daughter is very shy so doesn't like being away from me when adjusting to others

You just described the past 14 months since the day my child was born.

Seriously hope no one does this in my family when my son is old enough to basically say no. I even told my husband if our son doesn’t want to hug someone in the family he doesn’t have to. I guess I’ll see how that goes in the future to telling family no.

You know what's even worse than that?Having literally no one give a crud that you exist or have had a baby.I'm not saying that relatives who do this should be allowed to do it with impunity, it stinks when they do....but to throw a rant up ladled with swear words, telling them to f*ck off because they care? Come on. Be careful what you wish for.Have an honest and open conversation based in love, respect and appreciation. Tell them that baby dosent like it, you dont like it and although you appreciate it you think baby just needs a time out with you. Ask then to check back later.