So my husband is one of those “I’ll do it don’t worry it will get done” type of guys but then a year goes by and never gets done. So I took it upon myself to look for someone to do renovations around the home before the baby arrives in July. He doesn’t have to do a thing not even pay for not a damn thing and he tells me “you don’t own anything here don’t have people come in and out of my house to do anything around here.” And to clarify the house he purchased he did it with his mother and without my knowledge, so technically no it’s not my home married or not never felt it was my home because of that. He’s always made it clear I have no say when it comes to his house. Yet I pay bills in that house yet his mom does not. I don’t even know how or what to say to this man I’ve lost all hope, desire, urge to even talk to him. If he’s like this while I’m carrying his first born I just can’t fathom how we can have a successful happy marriage. I just fee lost and alone.