My son's dad isn't super involved in his life. He's 11 months old now and his dad sees him maybe once a month. And before you judge me, please know that I have always given him the choice to see him. Hasn't asked for custody or anything. Theres no fight there. I'm not holding his child from him. I have always said if you want to see him we can make it work. Half the time he bails and cancels and has excuses anyways. BUT i never force him to see him or tell him no you can't see him.

SO.

Apparently his dad has to fly out to another state for work for 2 weeks. He texted me this 15 minutes ago. Telling me that he leaves on Thursday morning. And that he wants to see our son before he leaves.

Let me just very nicely tell you some factors here. I work full time and don't finish work until 7pm (unless I give my boss ample notice to leave early). Our son has some special needs and has physio therapy every other Wednesday night at 6 (I leave early for that). I try to have him winding down for bed about 9pm (he has always been a night owl baby) I live 30 minutes away from work. His dad lives an hour away from us. I very kindly said you know this is super last minute and I don't think we can swing it on such short notice. He told me that I should make the time and that's that. I'm like what?

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