I feel like I didn’t get to really enjoy this pregnancy. I didn’t get to announce the gender of my baby cause the two grandmothers did(I know sounds petty to get pissed about). Not only that but my boyfriend’s mom posted one of the idea names (which wasn’t set in stone). The name is different so I was annoyed that she didn’t ask both of us. I don’t need people asking why it’s not the name she posted because it wasn’t officially decided.

Now I’m just trying to avoid being stressed out. My mom wants things done the traditional way for the baby shower. So the baby shower is planned her way. I just show up, smile, say thanks and go home. I didn’t want to do a gender reveal party , my mom wanted to throw one. So I just went with it. Everyone was like oh you’re not supposed to know blah blah blah.

I’m just over it already.