Havnt had Sex.....

Ki
My BF and I have not had sex for maybe 3 months and it's driving me nuts. There are reasons why we havnt had sex but I just want a little something. I know he dose to but he isn't telling me. 
The reasons are
He had brain surgery (for real, he has a medical issue) 
He wasn't able to drive or do anything for about a month. His grandmother passed away a few weeks later, so he went out of state. There's more.....