Well.... Let's just say I've had enough. He is doing blow more and more. Last 2 guys I dated were coke heads and I refuse to deal with it again. I've told him this multiple times and he still continues to do it increasingly to the point where it is atleast once a week.

I can not criticize his actions without him making me feel like I'm a piece of shit. Tell me how a relationship should work if you cant even talk about things that upset you? As soon as I tell him about something he does that upsets me he becomes defensive and tells me to leave him if I dont like how he is. Then he pretends as if he never said it the next day.

He never helps around the house and gives me grief when I ask for help . I'm ready to be done with him. He isn't my forever. We are in a lease together until Oct 31st 2020. .

How do I cope until then? No option to finish lease early.

Do I pretend I still want to be with him and continue sleeping together in the same room, or do I break it to him and take the spare room?

I personally think moving to the spare room would only bring more problems and lead to significantly more stress.

Please leave your opinion. It is greatly appreciated.