The coworker at work who wont keep her hands off my husband.
There is this women at work, we will call her Tamy, who flirts with my husband all day long and everyone knows it. I and my husband work together in the same position on different shifts, we use to work the same shift in the same area, but since the change in daycare schedules we went to different shifts to take care of our son. Tamy use to work in a different part of the building and at that point she would always say things like "I just love having (we'll call my husband Tom) tom around!" And "I feel so safe with Tom around". I brushed it off and never said anything when I left to go to a different shift Tamy applied to work in my position with my husband. She got the spot and ever since she has come up to me to say how much she loves Tom and she will side hug hig around me. I've never made a comment about it. Tamy is probably 20 years older than my husband and I'm by no means worried that my husband would ever cheat on me we both have very strong morals and values, plus we are selves pleasure each other plenty that neither of us have time to look elsewhere. Today though I was saying goodbye to my husband like I always do and she came in and immediately hugged him and said "I just love my Tom". I made a playful warning saying "be careful he's a married man" and she said "I dont care it's not like I was trying to kiss him or anything, you dont have to be so salty. If you're really that insecure besides I spend more time with him than you do". I was furious. I didn't say anything but my husband and I exchanged looks and he knew. Neither of us like to raise problems at work, and my husband is a kind respectful person and doesn't want to create a scene or hurt anyones feelings. I've since chatted with my husband and he understood my frustration, said she was out of line, and told me she gave a half apology to him after I left, but I need some long term advice on how to deal with her. Please help!
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