What would you do?

If your bf/babydaddy forced you to not work, only gave you gas money when he felt like it, paid his parents bills but said he was broke so you couldn't get groceries, stayed up constantly playing games instead of spending time with you or your child, drank every day, and tried to shut your friends wnd family out. He wont let you go to the doctor. He blames everything on you. He argues over nothing. He quickly snaps at your child. He says you don't do anything. He talks down to you and calls you a bitch. He tells you that your opinion doesn't matter.

No victim blaming comments. Please just share experiences. I'm trying to help someone get the strength to leave.