Ok so I'm gonna start off by saying I love my nephew I do he can be a really cool kid an he's so so damn smart but then.... There's this other side of him. That man makes me wanna run screaming when my mother inlaw brings him over he is an only child an I try my best to keep this in mind but man this kid can be pretty naughty since my sons been born he will secretly pinch him or dig his nails into his stomach he's a preemie born at 29 weeks he's 2 years old now but like I said since we've brought him home he secretly tries to hit or pinch or dig his fingers into him now that my sons older an can play he starts punching my son's arms puts his whole body on top of my son he takes toys out of my sons hands my son just turned 2 in Jan my newphew will be five next month the whole entire time he's over he bucks an kicks an stomps an jumps really hard to hear his feet stomp because the house is not on the ground an then my daughter is starting to walk she just turned 1 in Jan as well an he's constantly walking right in front of her running passed her an knocking her down he hits our tv when one of the kids sits on the couch he will try an wedge himself into there spot when there are sooo many other places to sit he mocks my son when he falls or gest hurt when I'm trying to discipline my kids he says yeaaaaa don't do that or yeaaaaa you been being bad all day just whatever I say he says it after I say it an when its time for him to go ALLL HELL BREAKES LOSE. He throws himself runs away from us hides under my bed he is in all the adults conversations he knows everything about everyone a few months ago we thought my mother inlaw had breast cancer well the first thing his mom does is tell him that his grandma has cancer all day long after that he was telling her not to drink coffee not to watch tv not to do this or that cause it causes cancer an he doesn't want her to die which I completely understand that's his grandma it turns out she's fine I know it's not my son an it's by all means his parents choice what they want do with him but because of this he feels like he can be in my personal business Idk what to do like I said he can some times be a really cool funny kid an he's smart but a part of me wants to ask my mil not bring him over so often she comes over with him sometimes 1 to 2 times a day but always at least once a day an every time she can't get him to leave she swears that she can't do it anymore that she will never bring him back that he doesnt listen an that is it never again an will literally bring him back two hours later saying she feels so bad cause hes lonely also id like to add that he's been kicked out of preschool an has gotten in trouble a lot at school an daycare for his behavior his parents or my mother in law NEVER EVER discipline him his mom will come for him an literally watch me an my mil fight an struggle really bad an she will stand there an tell her mom mom when you get him bring him home would it be bad to ask for her not to bring him over so much specially if he can't behave himself an to add the cherry on top my son is starting to pick up his bad habbits he's starting to bully his sister take toys from her hit her an I just don't know how much more I can take someone please tell me I'm not the devil for feeling this way