His fiance is jealous of me, I've just been informed. What do I do? ๐Ÿ‘€

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I'm a single mum and when my son is sleeping on the evening, for my own SANITY I go on the xbox and play games and speak to people because I don't go out and no one visits me so it's nice to have that part of my life back to game and chat like I used to

For the last 2 years I've been online nearly every night with this guy who is 21 and I'm 26. He is engaged and I've even spoke to his Mrs on the headset once before, giving travel advice for them going to Europe.

Now he lives in Texas and I live in the UK so usually he's not on till around 10 or 11pm my time which is around 5 /6pm his time and we only talk for an hour or two SOMETIMES if im not knackered it can be longer but that's a rarity as I usually just pass out on the sofa or go to bed

He said to me last night that he won't be online as much anymore and said how him and his girl had a row. He said that she came in and while he was getting off the xbox and went off on one saying that her friends have planted doubt into her kind saying they wouldn't allow their boyfriends to play and speak to a girl. He told me that she was saying stuff like "you laugh so much with her but when we spend time together you don't laugh as much with me as you do with her, what's the deal, you like her don't you?!"

My reaction to this was basically confusion but I felt for her I told him I don't mind speaking to other people online for Abit despite him being my best friend who ill miss but in the mean time I advised that he needs to work on his relationship and they need to sort out where the root of this lack of trust is coming from because she knows my deal. I'm in another country, I'm a single mum and I go online and have a laugh with him PLUS my younger sister is now in our chats alot anyway so there's 3 of us but those details his Mrs fails to remember unfortunately.

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What do I do?

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I'm going to miss him but he has already said that when she comes home he has to make sure he isn't online all the time, they've generally been having issues within their relationship growing apart as they were engaged, broke up and now are engaged again within the space of a year.

I've heard her conversations In the background before and she does strike me as being very immature for her age but then again she is only 19 but I hear her chat away and she says stuff that doesn't make sense but I just let it slide cause its none of my business.

I've spoken to her before on fb messenger too and was tempted to start random conversation with her but knew it would be too obvious, this has happened with me before and I spoken to the girl and we ended up being best friends.

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